教你怎样与外国人搭话
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其实很简单,那就是我们不断地向外国人提问,然后从外国人的答复中寻找两人的共同点,一旦找到两人的共同点,即可进行深入的交谈。比如下面这段对话,背景是两个不认识的人(Tom和Joe)在一个社交聚会上见面。Tom问:您做什么工作啊?Joe答:我是卖保险的。由于每个人都可能买保险,这很可能是一个突破口,于是Tom紧接着问:您卖哪种保险啊?Joe答:我卖亚得里亚海油井的保险。这个险种实在太冷门了,但Tom并不气馁,继续提问,最后终于找到两人的共同点:原来两人的籍贯都是内布拉斯加州,于是Tom从这个突破口切入,与Joe开始了深入的交谈。
Tom: Hi, I’m Tom. What is your name?(提问)
Joe: I’m Joe.(寻找共同点)
Tom: Well, Joe, what do you do for a living?(提问)
Joe: I sell insurance.(寻找共同点)
Tom: Oh yeah? What kind of insurance?(提问)
Joe: I insure oil rigs in the Adriatic Sea.(寻找共同点)
Tom: Wow. That’s must be fascinating. Married or kids, Joe?(提问)
Joe: No, actually, I’m single.(寻找共同点)
Tom: So, who do you know here at the party?(提问)
Joe: Sorry, nobody.(寻找共同点)
Tom: So where are you from?(提问)
Joe: Nebraska.(终于找到共同点!)
Tom: Really? My dad was from Nebraska. Even though he died when I was four,
my grandmother used to take me back to visit my relatives every summer growing up. Were you city folk, or did you live on a farm?
Joe: I grew up on
Tom: Hi, I’m Tom. What is your name?(提问)
Joe: I’m Joe.(寻找共同点)
Tom: Well, Joe, what do you do for a living?(提问)
Joe: I sell insurance.(寻找共同点)
Tom: Oh yeah? What kind of insurance?(提问)
Joe: I insure oil rigs in the Adriatic Sea.(寻找共同点)
Tom: Wow. That’s must be fascinating. Married or kids, Joe?(提问)
Joe: No, actually, I’m single.(寻找共同点)
Tom: So, who do you know here at the party?(提问)
Joe: Sorry, nobody.(寻找共同点)
Tom: So where are you from?(提问)
Joe: Nebraska.(终于找到共同点!)
Tom: Really? My dad was from Nebraska. Even though he died when I was four,
my grandmother used to take me back to visit my relatives every summer growing up. Were you city folk, or did you live on a farm?
Joe: I grew up on